Tarts or Quiche?
My daughter and her fiancé are visiting, we haven’t seen her properly for over a year. I’m going to cook something for lunch, I start discussing options with my wife (she’s American). She asks me why I bought more eggs wh […]
My daughter and her fiancé are visiting, we haven’t seen her properly for over a year. I’m going to cook something for lunch, I start discussing options with my wife (she’s American). She asks me why I bought more eggs wh […]
The space between stimulus and response. I want to be more careful. I want to be more curating and purposeful. I want to be more thoughtful with what I say, how I respond. Buddha lik […]
No behaviour happens in isolation of the situation. Every behaviour is linked, inextricably to the environment in which it occurs. No person is how they are independently of their experiences. ‘I’ the person you see, the […]
Secretly, perhaps, you want those unsafe behaviours!
Having is evidence of wanting!
There is an idea out there that our subconscious drives our conscious….
There is a propensity within the construction industry to measure the success of training by measuring how many people go through the training, and often, how fast can they get through it….
“The point I interface with the environment fundamentally determines my behaviour” – Rory Sutherland
You might not believe this, you might disagree with this, but it is, none the less quite true. Very true in fact.
“I” is you, you are unique….
Most of what you are and have accomplished in life is due to where you are rather than who you are. Most of where you are is because of where you were before that.[…]
Your personal account of how the world works isn’t good enough to describe how the world works.
Your journey so far, on this planet has given you (and me) a biased view of how things are, what causes them and what to believe in….
There is always context.
context that you, as the person that just found out about the act are never fully aware of.
context that the act done was done in and because of….
If you are not a touch typer, try typing a word behaviour without looking at the keyboard.
behavkor – that’s what happens for me. So close!
Every behaviour we do, from the key typed, the nail hammered to the words spoken receive feedback, a consequence.[…]